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- Jan 19, 2021
Online dating - Hinge and Bumble.
Yeh logistics were on point, she was local, and the venue was 5 mins from my house.
MAC
Yeh logistics were on point, she was local, and the venue was 5 mins from my house.
MAC
Agreed. I think you need to screen for girls better MakingAComeback , and at the first sign that they're the high maintainance "I wanna be treated like a princess" type, you should unmatch them. I have zero tolerance for this type of shit so that's probably why I almost never go out with bratty ungrateful girls.countingsheep7878 said:@MakingAComeback how are you meeting these dates? Are you not screening for good logistics and flirty DTF chics in your online bio and messages with them? I feel a lot of this could get sorted out before a date so you screen them out so you don't have as many bad date experiences.
Idk man, I feel like it's hard to generalize an entire city with millions of people. There's tons of obnoxious feminist man hating girls here and I've never been out with one (at least not one that openly acted like that).Thebastard said:YESSSSSSSSSSS!! GET IN THERE SON!!!!
The reason @MakingAComeback is getting such crappy interactions is because he is trying to date in London. A lot (I know not all) of these online girls are bottom of the barrel calibre and most have more red flags than a chinese communist parade from what I have read. I truly feel it is as simple as that. The only way to be sure would be to relocate to somewhere else but I'm not sure that is an option at this stage.
By the way, I need to disagree with this notion you have that you are the least attractive man this forum has had in terms of overall package. I believe you are not only doing better than I would (at my worst) in London but possibly even better or equal to how I would do if I was there now. In the end, it doesn't matter. Keep getting more attractive until you get results. You are on the right path my man.
Honestly, given what I've heard about cold approaching in the UK, I'm inclined to believe you.Radical said:To support @Thebastard here
UK is the worst place i have dated and by extension UK girls have been the worst to date
I dont tend to say this much because i fear it will become an excuse to newbies that live there not to try. Its not impossible, just depressingly hard compared to elsewhere and my preferred advice to UK lads is leave
@Squilliam you seem to be skeptical but you can at least trust our opinion to some degree, knowing that bastard and I are both very experienced in the UK scene and have dated all over the world for comparison
MakingAComeback said:Online dating - Hinge and Bumble.
Yeh logistics were on point, she was local, and the venue was 5 mins from my house.
MAC
You sir are fucking smooth.countingsheep7878 said:MakingAComeback said:Online dating - Hinge and Bumble.
Yeh logistics were on point, she was local, and the venue was 5 mins from my house.
MAC
Sorry I wasn't clear enough. I meant, why aren't setting up dates straight to your place as your first option (then only using a bar nearby a secondary option)?
I use this sequence for setting dates at my place for online after the initial opener and vibing phase (this sequence is from Playing with Fire's content which I highly recommend for better text game, he has so many full examples in videos on youtube for free that can you watch him breakdown from his opener to the close getting date straight to his place)
me: So how's your wild Wednesday been thusfar?
her: good, almost done with work, you?
me: Going amazing, just got a killer workout in. Looking sharp for our romantic date
her: Oh ya, a date huh?
me: Mhm, just need to know if you like wine
her: I love white wine
me: okay perfect we should split a bottle of white sometime soon
her: sounds fun, I'd like that
me: So what's your schedule like this week?
her: I am free Thursday and Friday night
me: Friday night works. well split a bottle of white wine in front of my romantic fireplace. I've been meaning try with some chocolate covered strawberries
her: sounds amazing (or sometimes there is an objection about meeting at my place on the first date that would go in this response from her normally; in which case I pivot to a bar within walking distance to me).
me: awesome, shoot me your number for romantic date arrangement purposes
her: 111-111-1111
Obviously it won't go this smoothly every time but here's a few legit examples from me.
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MakingAComeback said:Focus is on just enjoying the process and enjoying my life.
Yeah this is what I meant earlier. Many girls are terrible at dealing with rejection. That girl is entitled and clearly used to getting her way.MakingAComeback said:She is there like "WHAT" and what cracked me up is some boys on the table in front were like YOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. Hahaha they were cheering me on what fucking guys. They prolly heard the convo.
Squilliam said:You sir are fucking smooth.countingsheep7878 said:Sorry I wasn't clear enough. I meant, why aren't setting up dates straight to your place as your first option (then only using a bar nearby a secondary option)?
I use this sequence for setting dates at my place for online after the initial opener and vibing phase (this sequence is from Playing with Fire's content which I highly recommend for better text game, he has so many full examples in videos on youtube for free that can you watch him breakdown from his opener to the close getting date straight to his place)
me: So how's your wild Wednesday been thusfar?
her: good, almost done with work, you?
me: Going amazing, just got a killer workout in. Looking sharp for our romantic date
her: Oh ya, a date huh?
me: Mhm, just need to know if you like wine
her: I love white wine
me: okay perfect we should split a bottle of white sometime soon
her: sounds fun, I'd like that
me: So what's your schedule like this week?
her: I am free Thursday and Friday night
me: Friday night works. well split a bottle of white wine in front of my romantic fireplace. I've been meaning try with some chocolate covered strawberries
her: sounds amazing (or sometimes there is an objection about meeting at my place on the first date that would go in this response from her normally; in which case I pivot to a bar within walking distance to me).
me: awesome, shoot me your number for romantic date arrangement purposes
her: 111-111-1111
Obviously it won't go this smoothly every time but here's a few legit examples from me.
Example 1
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Example 2
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I don't drink though. Do you think I could replace wine with sharing a joint or blunt? I usually seek out girls who like weed (literally have a hinge filter lmao), so most of them should be onboard with it.