MakingAComeback said:
Can you tell us about our your inner work dude?
How do you do it?
LMK
Been a fair journey to be honest this is sort of the list of things that have just built on and built on over the years
-Doing a 4 week masculinity course along with a Tantra element where I challenged myself to go 60 days without ejaculation
-Having a sexuality mentor and doing various workshops with Sexual Quantum Leap and retreats to build the confidence of knowing internally that any woman I meet I can give a better sexual experience than 90% of other guys she will ever meet, the mindset on this and shift really helped me get laid a lot more as I let go of a lot of self-sabotage
-Movement coaching, breath work, cold/hot
-Working with various inner work coaches who are close to or have worked with people in the dating space
-Rebuilding my self-esteem and healing a lot of family dynamics and other issues with a longer-term coach I worked with
-Joining the peace timeline and learning how to do parts work (Internal Family Systems) to move and shift a lot of crap internally and heal my relationship to the feminine and help parts of me protecting me move through things
Then I have also on my own been doing as much letting go as I am able to and when possible meditation.
The other things I have been feeling into as well to help with confidence is knowing that looks money status help, but also at the same time completely letting go of that if it doesn't serve me.
My retarded belief that my height, my weight, my looks don't matter has given me almost super powers in the past to go for and feel entitled to super attractive women, and also reframe any rejection to I just need to appraoch more or improve my game.
And this retarded levels of self belief allowed me to sleep with women who seemed way out of my league in a pure SMV to SMV comparison, but I was just like I know this game stuff it means I can get the girl.
If anything I am like worse off now in belief and it does fuck me up a little on the quality of women and I limit myself only to shorter women even though in the past I have been with attractive taller women through my autistic levels of self belief and that looks and height don't matter.
Today I just seem to have embodied a lot of stuff I learnt to by default lead a women back to my place for sex with out trying, so I am excited with the fat loss, the better looks and also working on being more relaxed and letting go of more shit