Eh. Consistency is just one piece.
There needs to be more.
It's been a long time that this log has existed and we see almost no analysis of what you're doing wrong and what you plan to do better. Just surface-level platitudes.
You're simply using it as a diary.
You haven't had sex for a year. WHY? How do you plan to fix this? Where are the details?
Glad you ask mate!
As I said I've had occasions of having sex but not with girls I was interested in so no use to talk a lot about those.
I've had a long period of few months where I tried to focus on myself instead of trying to get girls. That involved finding a new job and getting my driver's license. The plan was to keep the conversations I had with ladies platonic, but to keep my sense of repartee exist, whether it would make me flirty or not. I found the work but with much instability and family matters I didn't have the money for the driver's licence.
After coming back from a trip to my native country I set new objectives and decided to go back on actively seducing girls and trying to get laid.
The past four months I worked as a bartender, so all the girls I met were customers from the two bars I worked in. To summarize, the problem I had in the interactions with the ladies I liked was calibration. Each time I tried a move the outcome was either the girl saying she's not interested after some interaction or not answering my texts when I got the number. To me, it means that I wasn't impactful enough. Either I showed too much interest, or my brutal-teasing side was too powerful.
It's just a theory but I think it's the main problem. I always try to be flirty in my conversations, to have a strong frame control, and to convey positive energies whatever the situation. I also always try to have in mind that I don't NEED the girl I'm trying to seduce.
I'm finishing my job at monday and I plan to go out a lot after that, in order to meet girls in other situations than at my work. I also try to force myself to approach ladies by day. Whatever the situation I have to work on my calibration and on how to deliver a sexual frame. That's how I plan to get laid before the 8th of July.
Expecting you guys to tell me what you think or to ask for more details if needed!
Light and Peace on you all
