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Im Lusty
I, Lusty, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Recently single, used to live in Melbourne Australia but due to the authoritarian regime and 2 years of being locked up/Isolated my mental health took a turn, I gained 45kg through binge eating and binge drinking, particularly low point was being shot at by cops and arrested for walking outside my apartment without my ID on me, then other issues of not being allowed to do anything like go gym because I wasn't taking the big V. Fast forward I moved to the Northern State of QLD and just trying to get my stuff back together, was in a little bit of a toxic relationship, likely just a mirror of my own toxicity so I took 2 months off dating altogether, the past 2-3 years I have been doing a lot of inner work, but have been in the pick-up self dev journey for 12 years now.
For a mild ego boost and because I find it funny my lay count is 69, I was hoping my ex would be my wife so I could die with a lay count of 69, but looks like that didn't go to plan, unless I stick to abstinence and go to Church and become a born again virgin?
So got some experience when it comes to sex and dating, however it always came from a desperate get my lay count up at any cost, a lot of random sex from online dating which was very low quality. Then again been with some odd attractive women, more so when I had initially lost weight and was around 75-80kg bodyweight at 5'4 so yeah short guys can get laid ;)

Goals/Focus
Weightloss
CW: 107KG GW: 70kg Height: 5'4

Masculinity & inner work
Heal my inner child, work on my co-dependant people pleaser nice guy side
Learn and be ok with doing hard things
Focus on keeping my word for myself and what I say to others (including commitments I make here)
Get more comfortable with being physically violent through wrestling other men, combat sports, hunting or other sports/tasks
read 1 book per month (on track with this so far this year)

Money
Got two business things I am working on, one is established one is brand new
The established one I want to add 800k of Rev in the next 3 years
The new one I want to hit 100k rev in the next 3 years

Dating
Don't really care about increasing my lay count
Want to focus on quality women, only sleep with women I find are attractive
No overweight women!
Only ever had one threesome with 2 other women was sort of like a half-assed one as in the girls didn't like to have sex with each other so I would like to have a proper 3some with 2 bisexual women or a 4some maybe would be insane
Short term just to see one person I find attractive and like hanging out with where we have great sex

Other stuff
Travel to a new country I have not been to
I have travelled a fair amount the past 12 months (19 flights so far) but they have mainly been to places I have been to before, or repeat trips for business
 
Welcome aboard mate.
Great community here.


SIGMA_1234 said:
I, SIGMA_1234, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I am a 24M looking for a job as a software engineer/ IT professional. Got amazing marks at university, at the cost of my social and party life. Got lost for a year in my career leading to a depressive bout, and looking to pick myself up again.

Only had 1 gf for a while at 22. Looking to get laid more to get good at sex, so my next serious gf will be satisfied with me sexually.

Recently changed my Bumble and Tinder photos from Andy's Tinder guide. My matches blew up (thank you Andy!), but as of writing, my country's still in some form of quarantine. Girls also are pretty scared to go out. So, I will put my swiping on hold for now until quarantine completely lifts.

My goals are:
-Get an entry-level software engineering/ IT/ management trainee job that pays well
-Get laid 20 times
-Practice what I learned from kyil's Blindfold, Magic Wand, Shibari, and other sex guides.
-Fix my diet and regularly go to the gym to better myself. Goal is 15% body fat (stuck at 19-20%)
-Get my own place in a CBD (still living with parents)

P.S.: Sorry guys, but I don't want to post my photo. My identity is a church boy irl, and I don't want my face to show up here we I am Googled. Rest assured, I am taking action in Andy's Tinder guide. If you can present me compelling proof that I won't show up here and I am convinced, then I will be more than happy to put my face here.
P.P.S: My face can be seen here: https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=40&t=32
 
Hi I'm Skelly

I, Skelly, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I am 30 from Newcastle, England.

My main goals is to lose my virginity by the end of the year.
I will do this by mainly focusing on online dating apps.

My goals are to
- Lose 40 pounds of fat by the end of the year
- To improve my style
- To Improve my dating app pictures
- To get my own place and move out of my mam's home
 
Yo, spooky here. I am just trying to raise my value in the sexual marketplace back to what it was in my 20s when I was slaying it, back before Tinder became what it is now. I'm 38 from the good old US of A.
I, spooky, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
 
Skelly92 said:
Hi I'm Skelly

I, Skelly, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I am 30 from Newcastle, England.

My main goals is to lose my virginity by the end of the year.
I will do this by mainly focusing on online dating apps.

My goals are to
- Lose 40 pounds of fat by the end of the year
- To improve my style
- To Improve my dating app pictures
- To get my own place and move out of my mam's home

Welcome lad.

Start a log.

We'll smash all these goals, easily.

MAC
 
MakingAComeback said:
Skelly92 said:
Hi I'm Skelly

I, Skelly, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I am 30 from Newcastle, England.

My main goals is to lose my virginity by the end of the year.
I will do this by mainly focusing on online dating apps.

My goals are to
- Lose 40 pounds of fat by the end of the year
- To improve my style
- To Improve my dating app pictures
- To get my own place and move out of my mam's home

Welcome lad.

Start a log.

We'll smash all these goals, easily.

MAC

Thanks mate, I will have look into and maybe start a log.
 
I, Tsantos, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hi I'm Tsantos, 33 and belong to Delhi, India. I've worked quite hard on my professional front at the expense of personal/social development. I've only slept with 3-4 girls so far and its quite embarassing as I see my friends switching partners literally every month and I feel I've missed out on a lot. Professionally I've lost motivation to move forward as this aspect pinches quite a bit. My self confidence is severely low at this point.

I want to lift myself up and emerge as a new self that I could be proud of. I'm willing to work hard to see changes.

My goals for the year are:

- Get laid
- Transform into a person that deserves to get laid
- Step up dating app game
- Improve fashion/style quotient
- Develop a clear, focused mindset towards life
- Lose body fat (target 12%)
- Improve overall personality and social skills
 
tsantos23 said:
I, Tsantos, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

Hi I'm Tsantos, 33 and belong to Delhi, India. I've worked quite hard on my professional front at the expense of personal/social development. I've only slept with 3-4 girls so far and its quite embarassing as I see my friends switching partners literally every month and I feel I've missed out on a lot. Professionally I've lost motivation to move forward as this aspect pinches quite a bit. My self confidence is severely low at this point.

I want to lift myself up and emerge as a new self that I could be proud of. I'm willing to work hard to see changes.

My goals for the year are:

- Get laid
- Transform into a person that deserves to get laid
- Step up dating app game
- Improve fashion/style quotient
- Develop a clear, focused mindset towards life
- Lose body fat (target 12%)
- Improve overall personality and social skills

Extremely possible.

I hadn't slept with anyone until I was 29.

I built a thriving life.

You can, too.

MAC
 
I, Scott West, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

I'm 36. I'm from the US. I'm getting out of a relationship now that I've been in since I was 20, so I'll need to work on making major changes to myself and my life.



My current goals are:

-Get laid, in the short term. I know I'll eventually want to settle down with someone, most likely. But I want to experience a different lifestyle for awhile before I go back to that.
-Lose weight and bulk up. I'm at least in decent shape, so I'm confident I can keep making progress.
-Figure out my sense of style. I'm really starting from scratch here, because currently it's a disaster. Mostly t-shirts and cargo shorts.
-Build up my personal confidence. I'm not a complete shut in; I can be charming sometimes and hold a conversation, but I also often come across as awkward and unconfident.
 
HeyitsScottWest said:
I'm 36. I'm from the US. I'm getting out of a relationship now that I've been in since I was 20, so I'll need to work on making major changes to myself and my life.

Wow man.

Can't imagine that transition being easy.

I'm rooting for you.
 
Whats up.
I, HereToFly, commit to working on my goals, taking myself seriously, and being the best version of myself

About me:
- I am 24 years old
-I am a software engineer
- Live In America

Long term goal
-lose Virginity
- Sleep with 10 girls

Short term goals:
- I currently weigh 195 pounds(15-17% bf) I want to drop that down to 185 pounds.
- I want to get my dating app profile started within the week.
 
Heretofly said:
Whats up.
I, HereToFly, commit to working on my goals, taking myself seriously, and being the best version of myself

Welcome Heretofly,

Looks good, but you need a picture of you in your avatar. A picture of a cat doesn't work. It can be a blurred out shot if your looking for anonymity, but it has to be of you.


Accounts that don't do this, get banned.


You got 3 days to fix this.





As per first comment on the thread.
Radical said:
On top of posting an avatar of yourself (can be cropped or blurred),


Edit: thanks for fixing this
 
Hello everyone, my name is Raven
I am from Germany, I am 38 years old and my goal is to start my own marketing business
 
Raven said:
Hello everyone, my name is Raven
I am from Germany, I am 38 years old and my goal is to start my own marketing business


Yo Raven.

So I have to be an ass to you.
You skipped two mandatory things on a new profile.

1. Didnt add a profile pic of you (can be blurred out, but it has to be you)
2. Didn't write "I ____ commit to..."

You got 24 hours to fix that. If I see you logged in before then and didn't fix it OR didn't ask questions about how to fix, then I'm banning your account.
 
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Look forward to sharing all our lovely pink parts with you!
 
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What’s up I’m MG.

I, MG, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

25 living in Atlanta.
Goal is to get shredded.

I want to get down to 160lbs in 2023.
 
Yo
I'm KB.
I, KB, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.

31 from Brazil, playing online poker full time

My goals are:

Either get into a healthy(by my standards) relationship or get laid at least once a month
- Related to last goal, I need to internalize it is ok not to be in a relationship and have a good life regardless
I want to learn how to improve my apps(mainly Tinder) game - I know for instance my pics are shit
Get shredded(will be hard for me without guidance)
Get better in dealing with anxiety
 
Hi,
My name is Bastian, 26 years old, from Argentina.

My goals for this year (2023) are:
-Give Tinder a second go, but this time take it seriously.
-Go for 3 professional photoshoots to post killer photos for my Tinder profile.
-6 Lays from Tinder and cold approaching.

Mid-term goals (by the end of 2024):
-Go on a 100 dates with girls I actually find attractive (6's and above).

Long term goals:
-100 lays from Tinder and cold approaching.
-225 1 rep-max OHP.

I, Bastian, commit to working on my goals and taking myself seriously.
 
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