Day 168: 28/03/2022
๏ธ LAY 4: Professional Girl ๏ธ
So, I got laid last night for the first time since back in January and the sex was
pretty damn good
Considering my mental health hasn't been great as of late, I'm chalking this up as a big personal win
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Calling this girl
Professional Girl
So I went round this girl's at 5:30 Last night. She very kindly picked me up as she was out anyway. Kissed her on the lips when I got into her car and we just chatted on the way back to hers. Ended up on her couch watching Cowboy Bebop and drinking Columbian coffee. Although we didn't watch much of the T.V as we were busy talking and getting to know each other
We talked about relationships, red flags, bad sex, good sex stories, jobs we've both worked, bad doms, good doms, swingers websites, swingers clubs, past relationships, what we both like in bed etc. She's very open about everything and I can tell she's had a fair bit of experience. She's very liberal in her views and open-minded
Eventually she wanted to 'show me something upstairs'
then just went: 'Look, do you Wanna go upstairs and make out?' And it happened from there:
Lots of kissing, licking, teasing, oral, she rode me cowgirl (her favourite position) then I Fucked her in doggy, then on her side in 'spoons' position. She said I made her come 3 times and she was shocked at how long I lasted. This girl was very generous in bed and was very interested in making sure I had a good time. Nice to meet a girl who genuinely cares about my pleasure for a change
For my own peace of mind, just logging on here that I used protection and this girl is on birth control as a backup.
This girl is not submissive at all and has an under-bed restraint kit. She was saying she wants to tie me up and tease me etc. at some point. Told her once I've met her a few more times I'd be open to exploring. I've always been dominant so this might be a new experience for me. I'm an open-minded guy, so we'll see what happens in the future
Chilled round hers until 10 and had some good after-sex conversation. We had the talk about what we're looking for and whether we wanna see each other again (we do) then she dropped me back off at home. She's busy this week, but we're looking at Sunday night for a meet depending on what time she gets home
So that was Lay 4 in the bag. Pretty happy with how it turned out and we might have something regular on the cards. This would be ideal as she's local and good in bed
Gonna try go for the lock-in on this one.
Want to also say thank you to Crisis_Overcomer, Manganiello and Adam for helping me overcome a bit of a mental hurdle with their recent words of encouragement and advice regarding my concerns about race/girl types. Helped me relax a lot last night before and during the lay, so a big thank you to you guys - much appreciated
Other developments today:
- Decided to sort my sleep pattern out. I woke up at 10:30 this morning which just ain't good enough. I get that I'm struggling with my mental health lately, but lying in bed most the day isn't gonna help. I'll set an alarm tomorrow, bite the bullet, and force myself to get up
- Started filling out the therapists paperwork/activity sheets I've been sent. Got another session in a week or so, so we'll see how it goes
Got a couple other things going on, but I'll post about them in due course when I've put some time and effort into them and something significant occurs
Thanks for reading
Spider ๐ท