Spider Jerusalem
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- Oct 11, 2021
Day 314: 20/08/2022
LAY 15 Petite Firecracker 
+ BJJ Quest Complete! 
Had a Fucking great night last night. On top of that, finished the BJJ Quest I set for myself
Read on for more
LAY 15 Petite Firecracker
Last night I got laid with one of the best-looking girls I've ever been with.
This was a next-day lay pretty much as we got talking the night before on Tinder, but I had to sleep to keep with my new pattern, so I got her number and worked on her yesterday afternoon
I noticed recently that I've been going after the 'low-hanging fruit' when it comes to women. I set myself a 'Quest' in relation to this, but I'll post about that one tomorrow
Been trying to use up my boosts before Tinder Gold runs out, so I did a Boost the other night. Matched with this chick who was a very petite, cute 5'8 redhead
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So I've nicknamed her 'Firecracker' because she quite literally was a little Firecracker
I did some flirting and chatted her up and I found out that she has a thing for men in positions of authority. I told her I used to be a cop and still have my uniform - even sent a couple of old uniform photos of me over. From then on it was pretty much game on
She wanted me to go straight to hers, but me being weary and cautious in my late 20's, I pitched a drink first. Only night she could meet was last night. Hadn't planned to go out, but I'd done all my jobs, so I said 'Fuck it, why not?' Packed a bag with some of my toys, showered, ironed some fresh duds and arranged the meet
Got her to drive over to this bar I know with a hotel next door (convenient). Had my height increasing shoes, decent dark jeans, leather jacket, a white t-shirt with a necklace, watch and my stud earring (magnetic) in, so I looked pretty good and stood at 6'1 in the shoes
Soon as she walked round the corner, I was pretty taken aback. she was Fucking cute as hell. Long red hair, nice smile, small petite frame, makeup on point, vest top and a tight pair of jeans
I just grabbed her and kissed on the lips straight away and we full on tongue-kissed before we even said hello to each other
That was Fucking hot.
We headed into the bar and she had a Gin I just had a diet coke (I'm allowing myself 1 or 2 every weekend as I've been behaving and slacking off on the Coke). We chatted for an hour where I was making her laugh, chatting about my disastrous Amsterdam trip etc. And she finished her drink. I said: 'Wanna get out of here with me?' and she agreed, went and grabbed her bag and we headed to the hotel next door
Lay Report:
Sat on the bed and kissed her for ages. Moving my hands all up and down her, brushing my stubble against her neck (Drove her crazy), biting her lower lip, running my thumb across her lip, biting her ear, breathing in it, dirty talking and calling her 'good girl'
Eventually the clothes came off. C cup tits, size 8 clothing size, still had a bit of ass too - she had a matching pink thong and bra set from Ann Summers which suited her well and showed off her assets. Spanked her a little, pulled her hair then I started kissing her all over. Bra came off and I was sucking her nipples then blowing cold air over them after they became wet (I've done this before with girls and it does work well)
Then I was biting her ass - literally like I was eating a peach leaving red teeth marks all over it. I even ate her ass at some point which made her squirm (something she's never done). I only do it if a girl's clean and I'm genuinely attracted to her which in this case, yes. Thong came off and she was completely waxed down there which is how I like it and I went down on her. Made her come multiple times - she pretty much moaned and squirmed the hotel down
After that, we took a break and chatted for a bit. Said she'd never been blindfolded, done BDSM etc. but has wanted to. Girl comes from a posh and strict family where sex outside marriage is kind of discouraged but now she's an adult, she's starting to do what she wants. Respect to her
So I got my bag out, got some of the toys out and said 'Would you like to start right now?'
5 minutes later, she was handcuffed, blindfolded and screaming the room down again as I forced the Magic Wand vibrator against her pussy. She came from this (Thank you Andy KillYourInnerLoser ) then we Fucked 3 times (I came 3 times) in different positions, starting with her in cowgirl riding me which if the girl is petite, is pretty awesome as I was bouncing her up and down and watching her cute little ass in the mirror hopping in my lap
After that we lay in each other's arms and just chatted until we fell asleep
I will say this girl was very receptive, open and reciprocated the intimacy. Lots of kissing, cuddling, she'd run her hands up and down my body, get on top and ride me, grind her ass in my lap and she was very, very vocal
Fucked her again this morning. Wanted to stay a bit longer, but I promised myself I'd do session 5 of Jiu-Jitsu, so hopped in the shower with her and then we parted ways. Offered her another date with a coffee or something, but she said 'I just want to go to bed with you again...' She seems like she enjoyed the night
I sure as hell did.
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Few points and key takeaways for me here:
- I didn't need to use Viagra with this girl. I'm almost 14 Days into No-Fap and I think this has helped me a lot. Plus I was actually attracted to her. I'll post more about this tomorrow
- The new condoms I bought are Fucking awesome. They're 'Large/XL Size' and I usually have trouble getting condoms on with the tip, but not these. Also they're latex free and natural - just feels so much better. If one good thing came out of the lay with the Sexologist, it was this condom recommendation from her. Gonna go to the Chemist this week to pick up some more as they were on offer and I still think they are
- Been re-reading 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' this week as part of my book quest. Been trying to reflect this in my behaviour with women. She said she likes the fact that I come off as a bit of an 'asshole' and that I act like I don't care if she showed up her not or if she leaves the date. This was reflective when I'd tease her and she'd call me a 'dickhead' or a 'wanker' but she'd laugh straight after very playfully and mockingly hit me on the shoulder. I need to keep this up as it worked well for me last night
- She said she thinks we have great chemistry
For my own peace of mind, I am stating on this log now on the record: Condoms were used every time and this girl is also on the Pill (she showed me the container which was good of her and I saw her take it)
Just want to give a quick shoutout to Brother_Tucker and AskTheDom. They helped me through the bullshit I went through the other week and I'm very grateful to them. Stopped me from giving up on the dating and your advice paid off last night big time
BJJ Quest Complete!
Well, I did it.
Dangerous but Disciplined Part 2. has now been completed - I have gone to Jiu-Jitsu 5 times in the space of 1 week as this morning takes us up to session number 5
Seeing this as a massive Fucking achievement here. As 4 of these sessions have been after work, there has been nights where I've been shattered, up since 5 etc. but still pushed through, said 'Fuck it' and went anyway
I had a back injury today but still went. I just adjusted my training accordingly and made my sparring partners aware
From having a panic attack to attending all sessions in 1 week is a really long way to come. Physically I've coped well also. Been able to handle the intense cardio
Another quick shoutout to Adam who's really helped me along with this. I'll carry on into next week with the training and see how I get on
Gonna buy myself a new Rash Guard now - I'll place my order when I'm next in Monday
What a Fucking weekend!
Thanks for reading
Spider 🕷
LAY 15 Petite Firecracker + BJJ Quest Complete! Had a Fucking great night last night. On top of that, finished the BJJ Quest I set for myself
Read on for more
LAY 15 Petite Firecracker Last night I got laid with one of the best-looking girls I've ever been with.
This was a next-day lay pretty much as we got talking the night before on Tinder, but I had to sleep to keep with my new pattern, so I got her number and worked on her yesterday afternoon
I noticed recently that I've been going after the 'low-hanging fruit' when it comes to women. I set myself a 'Quest' in relation to this, but I'll post about that one tomorrow
Been trying to use up my boosts before Tinder Gold runs out, so I did a Boost the other night. Matched with this chick who was a very petite, cute 5'8 redhead
️ So I've nicknamed her 'Firecracker' because she quite literally was a little Firecracker
I did some flirting and chatted her up and I found out that she has a thing for men in positions of authority. I told her I used to be a cop and still have my uniform - even sent a couple of old uniform photos of me over. From then on it was pretty much game on
She wanted me to go straight to hers, but me being weary and cautious in my late 20's, I pitched a drink first. Only night she could meet was last night. Hadn't planned to go out, but I'd done all my jobs, so I said 'Fuck it, why not?' Packed a bag with some of my toys, showered, ironed some fresh duds and arranged the meet
Got her to drive over to this bar I know with a hotel next door (convenient). Had my height increasing shoes, decent dark jeans, leather jacket, a white t-shirt with a necklace, watch and my stud earring (magnetic) in, so I looked pretty good and stood at 6'1 in the shoes
Soon as she walked round the corner, I was pretty taken aback. she was Fucking cute as hell. Long red hair, nice smile, small petite frame, makeup on point, vest top and a tight pair of jeans
I just grabbed her and kissed on the lips straight away and we full on tongue-kissed before we even said hello to each other
That was Fucking hot.
We headed into the bar and she had a Gin I just had a diet coke (I'm allowing myself 1 or 2 every weekend as I've been behaving and slacking off on the Coke). We chatted for an hour where I was making her laugh, chatting about my disastrous Amsterdam trip etc. And she finished her drink. I said: 'Wanna get out of here with me?' and she agreed, went and grabbed her bag and we headed to the hotel next door
Lay Report:
Sat on the bed and kissed her for ages. Moving my hands all up and down her, brushing my stubble against her neck (Drove her crazy), biting her lower lip, running my thumb across her lip, biting her ear, breathing in it, dirty talking and calling her 'good girl'
Eventually the clothes came off. C cup tits, size 8 clothing size, still had a bit of ass too - she had a matching pink thong and bra set from Ann Summers which suited her well and showed off her assets. Spanked her a little, pulled her hair then I started kissing her all over. Bra came off and I was sucking her nipples then blowing cold air over them after they became wet (I've done this before with girls and it does work well)
Then I was biting her ass - literally like I was eating a peach leaving red teeth marks all over it. I even ate her ass at some point which made her squirm (something she's never done). I only do it if a girl's clean and I'm genuinely attracted to her which in this case, yes. Thong came off and she was completely waxed down there which is how I like it and I went down on her. Made her come multiple times - she pretty much moaned and squirmed the hotel down
After that, we took a break and chatted for a bit. Said she'd never been blindfolded, done BDSM etc. but has wanted to. Girl comes from a posh and strict family where sex outside marriage is kind of discouraged but now she's an adult, she's starting to do what she wants. Respect to her
So I got my bag out, got some of the toys out and said 'Would you like to start right now?'
5 minutes later, she was handcuffed, blindfolded and screaming the room down again as I forced the Magic Wand vibrator against her pussy. She came from this (Thank you Andy KillYourInnerLoser ) then we Fucked 3 times (I came 3 times) in different positions, starting with her in cowgirl riding me which if the girl is petite, is pretty awesome as I was bouncing her up and down and watching her cute little ass in the mirror hopping in my lap
After that we lay in each other's arms and just chatted until we fell asleep
I will say this girl was very receptive, open and reciprocated the intimacy. Lots of kissing, cuddling, she'd run her hands up and down my body, get on top and ride me, grind her ass in my lap and she was very, very vocal
Fucked her again this morning. Wanted to stay a bit longer, but I promised myself I'd do session 5 of Jiu-Jitsu, so hopped in the shower with her and then we parted ways. Offered her another date with a coffee or something, but she said 'I just want to go to bed with you again...' She seems like she enjoyed the night
I sure as hell did.
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Few points and key takeaways for me here:
- I didn't need to use Viagra with this girl. I'm almost 14 Days into No-Fap and I think this has helped me a lot. Plus I was actually attracted to her. I'll post more about this tomorrow
- The new condoms I bought are Fucking awesome. They're 'Large/XL Size' and I usually have trouble getting condoms on with the tip, but not these. Also they're latex free and natural - just feels so much better. If one good thing came out of the lay with the Sexologist, it was this condom recommendation from her. Gonna go to the Chemist this week to pick up some more as they were on offer and I still think they are
- Been re-reading 'No More Mr. Nice Guy' this week as part of my book quest. Been trying to reflect this in my behaviour with women. She said she likes the fact that I come off as a bit of an 'asshole' and that I act like I don't care if she showed up her not or if she leaves the date. This was reflective when I'd tease her and she'd call me a 'dickhead' or a 'wanker' but she'd laugh straight after very playfully and mockingly hit me on the shoulder. I need to keep this up as it worked well for me last night
- She said she thinks we have great chemistry
For my own peace of mind, I am stating on this log now on the record: Condoms were used every time and this girl is also on the Pill (she showed me the container which was good of her and I saw her take it)
Just want to give a quick shoutout to Brother_Tucker and AskTheDom. They helped me through the bullshit I went through the other week and I'm very grateful to them. Stopped me from giving up on the dating and your advice paid off last night big time
BJJ Quest Complete!
Well, I did it.
Dangerous but Disciplined Part 2. has now been completed - I have gone to Jiu-Jitsu 5 times in the space of 1 week as this morning takes us up to session number 5
Seeing this as a massive Fucking achievement here. As 4 of these sessions have been after work, there has been nights where I've been shattered, up since 5 etc. but still pushed through, said 'Fuck it' and went anyway
I had a back injury today but still went. I just adjusted my training accordingly and made my sparring partners aware
From having a panic attack to attending all sessions in 1 week is a really long way to come. Physically I've coped well also. Been able to handle the intense cardio
Another quick shoutout to Adam who's really helped me along with this. I'll carry on into next week with the training and see how I get on
Gonna buy myself a new Rash Guard now - I'll place my order when I'm next in Monday
What a Fucking weekend!
Thanks for reading
Spider 🕷
Trouble on the Homefront 
pt. 2: 
My 3rd time back in the Gym this week, so gonna try for 4 times if I can and get in Sunday morning before work 
Was beating myself up about this a bit, but I've just kinda said 'Fuck it'. That's just life sometimes. Shit happens which you have no control over. Gonna focus on what I can control which will be going to the Gym Sunday and getting back on the training 
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as I need some fresh music to work out to! 
Just me and her on today and I sent her home 
keep grinding buddy!
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