Check in from last night:
ACTIONS
(1) Dating: 10 Cold Approaches / Online Dating Process (DONE approaches but only did 3, Online process done got a shit tonne of matches etc)
(2) Body: Gym / Core / Stretch (DONE)
(3) Content: Growth Strategy / Product Development (DONE growth strategy, no product dev)
Others: Possibly nightgame (DONE)
CA
1-Doesn't want to talk
2 - Get into a 10 min convo with this awesome chick, she JUST walked out of getting a new tattoo, she was a cool person and is friends with the singer from a band I like which I was shocked by. She asked for my socials etc.
3 - Gorgeous girl from Norway, we chatted for a bit but she was waiting for her bf lol
What I did well:
Stop was fairly effective and I made good eye contact before my stops. Conversation, flow and tonality was also good.
What I could have done better:
I feel like it was fairly solid yesterday, the long convo did start with clear intent so she could have mentioned her bf then. Even when she mentioned it, I did want to chat because this chick was awesome.
Volume wise, we were busy man and ended up only having the walk to the gym, and post gym for cold approaching. But everyone approached.
DAY 3 BUDAPEST - CLUBBING WITH TINDER DATE
Got up. We start the day going to a local coffee shop, chill for a while.
We then go home, Paw takes a nap as he is destroyed from banging this Asian chick from day game lol. I do my core work and stretching.
I go to the shops. Paw cooks lunch.
We have lunch, do some work.
GYM TIME
I do 1 approach before, then 2 after.
Girl off Tinder asks me if I'm out tonight. I say yeah.
I ask her to meet me at a spot near me, she says can we meet at this bar instead? I saw sure.
I do the YouTube growth process. Shower and then leave.
I arrive at 935, 5 mins later. I text saying I'm here. No sign of them. I wait, nothing. She texts 10 mins later saying 'were getting drinks we'll come find you' - I'm like, 'we'??
15 mins pass and she wanders over with her friend. Shes fatter than her Tinder pics, her friend is pretty. 2 19 year old Austrian chicks.
We chat, find a space, and vibe for a while. Her friend then says shes going to the bar and insists we dont move. She gets up and just goes to a table of random men.
I then talk to this girl, escalate, touching her all over. Shes cool with it, touching her legs, ass, etc.
She wants to go upstairs. We go to her friend and she says were going upstairs, her friend is reticent AF I can tell, but shes like, "no he's cool". We head up.
We talk for a while, I get another drink. I go for the makeout. She just stays closed lipped.
I'm unphased and keep talking. I invite her to my, seed future dates, tell her to visit me in London, am hitting her with it all.
We head back down, we're holding hands this whole time.
Her friend is with this random group of 30-40 year old men, and she insists on going to party with them at another venue. I ask my girl if we can meet them there, or if we can go to mine for a drink first. She insists she cannot leave her friend and they have a pact.
I say, OK fine, lets head out for some fresh air. Me and the girl head out, and talk for a bit. I then pin her against the wall outside, and go for the makeout again. Same thing, but this time I remember something Crisis_Overcomer did, so I choke her in the middle of the street, she starts moaning and then we make out heavy for a while tongues etc
FUCK YA
I then ask her about her kinks, BDSM, all this shit lol.
We head back inside to see her friend. Shes still with these dudes, but its time to leave. The guys just slowly start to dip when me and my girl rock up. Her friend is then trying to look for these dudes and insists they're partying with us. They basically have dipped. I think they were game, but when they saw me and this girl together, I think they thought, oh shit, lol.....they weren't expecting me.
Anyway.
The friends goes back inside to look for these dudes, and when she cant find them, admits defeat and heads out to walk to the party that was recommended. I tell them we should go meet my friends, that we should go together, etc Not seemingly having it.
We walk to this place. I'm holding hands with my girl and its all going fine, shes pleasant, I'm grabbing her ass here and there.
We get to the queue and they start talking amongst themselves in their language. The friend starts to do some sketchy shit. She says we're not getting in as they're not taking cash, and they don't know if they have card. I'm just like, OK....but people are paying with card. Shes then like, OK fine. Think the little dork thought I was going to offer to pay. No, LOL.
We go in, party for a while. I'm dancing with my chick, and her friend keeps giving her this hand signal. I then talk to her friend, and she then gives her friend another hand signal of a thumbs up. The chick is then really engaged and starts dancing with me. It's weird how much control the other girl has over her friend, their dynamic is weird, because one is better looking she seems to feel like she can control her friend. Its fucked.
AWKWARD - THEY TRY TO GET RID OF MAC
So we're dancing, and they go to the ladies. I wait. They then head back, and say they need to go outside.
We go outside and sit down on a bench.
The girls friend then says shes not feeling good, shes feeling like shit, and asks me where my friends are. I say I dunno. She then says well I feel like shit are you going to join your friends? At this point I know theyre trying to get rid of me and its AWKWARD
Theyre talking amongst themselves in their language, and I am just chilling.
My girl asks me, well what are you going to do? I say I dunno I'll see.
I ask whats going on?
Her friend responds, were not trying to get rid of you
Shes so dumb she just says it lol
Im like, its fine, just be honest, if you want me to leave I'll leave. The girl I'm with responds, we'll hang out tomorrow, I let her know that's cool but if you don't want to, I don't mind at all, just be honest and lmk.
They chat amongst themselves, can see I'm not moving, and they get up, the girl I'm with says sorry and they leave lol.
She was pleasant and fun to hang out with, her friend obv is a shitbag.
Having seen this sort of thing many times, I do not believe girls have real friendships with other girls. Their friends are often not wanting them to be happy, and do not want to see other women suceed. Lame.
Anyway, I head home, it's just a 10 minute walk. Paw gets in about 5 mins later. We debrief lol.
I tell him the tale, but the thing about Budapest is, there's so many girls here and it's a decent place for me - I have 2 girls wanting to meet the following day so I don't even care.
Sleep. Then I hear E coming in at 6am, he partied all night like a legend lol.
Now onto DAY 4!
MAC
