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I'm still split on the smiling vs no smiling debate. PHotofeeler actually wrote a really long rebuttal to the OKCupid "no smile is better" study. But gut also says that no smile is better..

1 vs 5 lays is quite a significant difference IMO. Good data man. Cheers.

Handsome but need to bulk up. 1 and 5 are best.

ugh...

u need a prime lens. for the bokeh from the large aperture . just buy the cheapest camerea body you can find and then buy a prime lens with f/1.8 or higher that fits (takes 30 mins of google to understand all this, easy). iphone 12 pro and pro max are good because they have a telephoto lens...

I get quite a lot of matches with my current Tinder pics but I want to optimize even further (throw out the bad pics, use the good pics). Can't be bothered to meticulously track my Tinder results while switching pics around especially accounting for variances in swipes per day, time of day...

You like girls, you just don't like girls that seem like they are sexually attracted to bad boys/masculine men (ie 99% of girls) because you have low self confidence and you don't think you are that man and you think that you will lose the girls you get to those kind of men. Hence why I think...

Yes it’s random but it’s more like this: I’m at 5 lays from ~180 approaches. My last lay was at approach 140. So roughly 30 approaches per lay. I didn’t track between 140-160 (so rly just estimating). But between that time I was super worried. I thought it was approaching a ton. I thought why...

^ the reason Chris recommended doing that is that 1/100 times it’ll actually work. (Legit probably 1/100 times from personal experience). For guys trying to maximize lays it’s worth trying everything. But totally not worth it from mental health/reputation perspective. To answer OP’s question...

Rapport (beyond basic “I’m not a creep and I’m socially normal” convo) is unnecessary. Either they’re into you or they’re not.

Good potential. Gut says need to get a shorter haircut (fade) to maximize appeal to women

just remake profile when u get a new set of pics...

Frankly I stopped reading at the second paragraph but the general rule is that if you've thought about this girl that much then you probably can't salvage it and you should just move on. The "do you wanna hook up" text was her being horny - may be she just wanted to sext with no intention of...

You invested way more in the conversation than she did But that's not bad thing. I don't think you talked too much. She just talked too little AKA she wasn't interested. There wasn't anything u could've done differently. it was all on her. Just keep trying your current approach on 20...

Hey, got banned from Tinder lol, not sure what's happening. But tbf I've had Tinder for like 6 years, talked to prob tens of thousands of girls, not surprising that some got butthurt and I eventually racked up enough reports to get banned (to be clear I've never broken any rules on Tinder, but...

LOL! Exactly the same. I actually enjoy calculating hit rate. And trying to figure out patterns re relationship between success and my bodyweight, approach, fashion, etc...Must be the autism.

Same!

I stopped counting/tracking after lay #5 because I thought it was too outcome dependent but then I realize I got sad when I would approach what seems like a ton of girls but not get results. I’ve started tracking again and it’s a much better feeling. Even if I approach 9 girls over a week and...

Good mindset Thebastard. Especially part about how if you persist there IS a chance of success. I think that’s what a lot of maonsphere guys miss. If you “work” on a girl then 5% of the chance it will work. But for the sake of ego and dignity preservation it’s just not worth it.

For the past 4-5 months or so work's been pretty quiet and I'd been working from home so I'd spent most of my time just dicking around and sending like three emails a day. I'd spent the last 4-5 months being absolutely obsessed with girls - starting to learn cold approach, going out to bars...