Date #5: Chocolate Girl
Calling her chocolate girl because she’s black , lol. Second date from OLD, both black girls haha, coincidence? This is the girl that flaked last time, btw. My best date yet.
Met up, wasn’t really into her (she’s chubby, but not fat at all, just not “slim“) and she was kinda annoying at first (she talks A LOT).
I knew I had to stay to get experience though. We go to a small bar and she buys both of us a drink because I didn’t have any money, lol.
She tells me stuff about her life that I only half-listened to, because I was so focused on the fact that she was not as attractive as I’d hoped.
(I actually do remember some stuff though, born in Nigeria, went to Ukraine for studies, came to Germany because of the war)
But then she takes off her jacket. “Oh? Her tits are actually kinda big” I repeat Andy’s mantra in my head “I want you”. She becomes sexier and sexier.
Get out of the store after an hour and walk around. Push her against a fence in a dark alley and make out with her.
Walk around some more, goof around etc. It’s very cold outside, so we go in a grocerie store. (Lead her there while grabbing her neck, lol)
We split up for a sec and I reflect on how the date went so far: “What are you doing, Brandon? Why are you in a grocerie store with her? And do you really want to hear another story of her life? Is this what you want to do?”
No.
Take her outside, look for a private spot. On the way we talk about body counts (she slept with 3 guys, all boyfriends) “Why do you not want anything serious, Brandon?” etc. Basically, we talk about sex.
Find private spot. Grab her by the neck and make out with her again. Then I pause and look her in the eyes: I tell her to say “I love being sexy for you daddy”, she chuckles and says it. Magical moment.
For the first time in my life I made a girl call me daddy. No turning back, this awakened something in me that I can’t wait to explore further.
We kept this daddy-good girl dynamic up the rest of the date, with regular conversations in between.
Found another semi-private spot where we can actually sit down. Make her caress my dick casually and make her give me a lap dance.
Here it gets really nice. I’m making out with her and really incorporate dominance and psychological play. This is something that I barely do with Basketball Girl, which is probably a big part of why the sex with her is so mediocre/ repetitive.
Make her say a bunch of things like “I love pleasuring you daddy” “I love your cock daddy” etc. I encourage her sexiness: “ You’re doing so good for me right now”, “I love the way you moan” “Who’s my sexy little slut?”, oh my god it was so hot.
Also made her use her imagination: “Imagine I was inside of you rn…”, “My dick slowly going in and out and then faster…” etc. etc., I wanna spare you the details, lol.
She could literally not control herself. She was moaning loudly, in a public place. Her legs were getting weak, so she had to sit down. “Im so wet for you right now daddy”, she says.
She also gives me a bunch of compliments, telling me that my cock is so big and I have a beautiful face and smile ect. Felt good
After we’re done she says that I made her cum. JUST BY MAKING OUT WITH HER. She says that she never even got wet for the 3 guys from just making out and that they always had to eat her out etc. before she even got a little wet.
I asked her why she thinks they weren’t able to pleasure her the way she wanted to. She did not know. Very interesting.
Takeaways:
I focused on my pleasure and did what I wanted to do (make her my little good girl) + incorporated psychological play and as a response she was INCREDIBLY turned on.
This is the first time I’ve incorporated psychological play and dominance like this and I was able to clearly see the effects.
Make the girls MIND travel into a completely different world where she’s the sexiest girl in the universe, solely created to pleasure YOU.
I was able to completely let go with her because I wasn’t worried about losing her, whereas Basketball Girl is the objectively cutest girl I’ve dated (I don’t really “rate” girls but HB7) so I’m more hesitant.
But after seeing this, I have to try it with her.
Note 1: I have to thank Manly Cockfellow here

He was the one that encouraged me to focus on
MY PLEASURE INSTEAD OF HERS (or better-worded to focus on my pleasure and then share it with her) and I’ve had one of the best sexual experiences I’ve had so far as a result, without even taking my clothes off (probably the same for her, from what she’s said).
Note 2: God damn, she left me with blue balls… KINDA HURTS LOL. She lives like 1h away but I’m definitely planning on seeing her again.
Note 3: I also opened up to her about how I lost my virginity to a prostitute after she asked me. I don’t really have a problem with telling girls this. In fact, I kinda take pride in it because I took initiative to turn my sex life around.
Note 4: Date with Basketball Girl scheduled for tomorrow. Both of my parents will probably be there, so freedom will be restrained. Eitherway, I want to focus on my pleasure and psychological play as well and see what happens.
TAKE ACTION
Crimson