8 July 2022
Lay #3: 24yo College Girl (1st Cold Approach Lay)
-I finally did it, I got laid from cold approach. I had to go through about 220 girls to even get to this point and it's been 3 months since I've completed the AA Program. I haven't been the best with keeping up a consistent volume weekly but I have to confidence since doing the AA Program that I can go out and take care of myself in terms of approaching. So I met this girl last week, the girl that works at a bank in Walmart, went on a walk last Sunday to get to know each other better and after the 3rd time meeting we're fucking. I haven't had sex in almost 2 years so this one feels great because I feel like I've proved to myself that I have control of my sex life, unlike with past partners I just didn't get lucky I made the decision to swallow my pride and ask this girl if she was single.
What fucking guy can do this? My roommate said he used to cold approach, supposedly cold approaching 1,000 girls but I don't really believe him, he stays stuck in his room playing video games all day and talks about cold approach as if it some "skill" to be mastered. I was talking to him yesterday before the girl came over and I just feel like he is not in the numbers game mindset, he always preaches to me about building "rapport" but I tell him all the time that it really doesn't matter. He says over-time you should get more "successes" (for example if you had a 1% ROI it should increase to an 9% ROI over-time) but I just tune him out because I feel like it doesn't matter, no amount of salesman type shit will help you. Now back to the lay, the girl came over at about 10:00 pm, she was texting a lot throughout the day asking me what she should wear, flirting with me and just giving off a lot of feminine energy.
I moved my TV upstairs in my bedroom to be more comfortable, she showed up with some really high-knee socks
with booty shorts on (no panties) and a shirt with no bra. Yeah, I felt like I got the vibe from slowly touching her in the beginning, we agreed to watch "Cloverfield" (really good movie btw, definitely going to draw some designs from the creatures) and honestly 5 minutes into the movie we just started to make-out. Grabbing her ass, feeling her breasts then noticed that she had both her nipples pierced (in my head I was like ok this is the type of girl I wanna fuck) then she just asked me "what do you wanna do?" I just said "I wanna fuck" and there was just no resistance to her at all like she just stripped down fast as hell and I felt comfortable.
My mind was just blown because I was like "it's that easy?", so I grabbed the condom (Durex Condoms) and put it on
my penis but it was kind of hard for the condom to roll down. Unless my penis added more girth I don't see why it was a little difficult, I've always used these condoms. First position was her on top I think, then doggy, then missionary, and then it concluded with her being on top riding. I couldn't come, maybe due to a lack of foreplay but she decided to give me a BJ and my fucking god it was a lot to handle, I was squeezing her hand so tight and grimacing because of the amount of pleasure. I asked her where did you learn this? She said Porn and just asking her friends. I did legs at the gym before meeting up with her so I felt tired as hell to be on top using my hips, and I kind of felt weird learning how to engage my hips more, the sex was ok I hate condom sex because I can't feel much. She stayed the night and we fucked in the morning again and this time I actually came during doggy.