Hello guys, hope you're doing well!
Salsa night was really cool. I learned a few steps of dancing, the music and people were really good, I took a lot of good energy. They were two lessons of one hour each, one for beginners, one for experimented dancers. The first one was really easy for me so I tried the second one; I stopped after 20 minutes because the level was really too high for me lmao ( I really enjoyed it tho)
After the lessons was the party. It was quite special because the dancefloor was filled with people with really good levels of salsa, so it was hard for a beginner to invite a lady to dance. I focused on the rest of the party, to go talk to people and girls. I started with a girl I liked when she was alone. The feeling was directly good, we had a smooth and funny conversation. She left to dance with another guy. Went back to her when she was alone again later. Despite I told her I didn't have a good salsa level she told me multiple times (the first time I went to her and now) that I could invite her to dance, which I did. We had a good time on the dancefloor despite struggling a bit: I tried to put official steps between my usual way of dancing which is only driven by my instincts (I'm quite good at dancing in my own way, alone or with a girl).
After that we went to speak, I invited her to move on a bench (bouncing technique, going to different places with a girl to experiment with the party in different ways). There I asked her if she was seeing someone. She told me that her ex broke her with her two weeks ago and that she still felt bad about it. After that we talked again and her friend took her to go smoking. I decided to not go see her again if she didn't give me signs of wanting to speak with me or else. My friends left me alone for a moment to see if she was coming to talk (she was near me) but she didn't come. When was time for us to leave I went to her and invited her to have a drink in the next few days. She seemed disappointed when I told her that I was leaving cause we couldn't talk about my t-shirt (I'll post a photo of this t-shirt if you're curious). I told her that it was true so I invited her to have a drink and she seemed eager and happy. We exchanged some numbers and then I left.
Pros of this :
- Went to talk to her without hesitation
- Good funny and smooth conversation
- Bounced a bit
- Imagined a story involving both of us when I took her number
- Kept my frame by not running after her
Coins of this story :
- Didn't convey enough sexual aura in my opinion (mostly with sexual intentions while looking at her)
- Didn't involve her friend in one of our conversations
- Almost apologized about my level of salsa while I could just have conveyed some positive energy with my original way of dancing.
- Asking her if she was seeing someone in a bit of a frontal way ( I think I lost point by doing this instead of letting the interaction go without asking)
She's in Paris for only 2 weeks so I think that she's in a mood where she just wanna have fun, casual sex, which is perfect for me. She's with her friend until Wednesday and will be more free when she leaves so I guess that's when I'll see her. Let's see how the text game goes.
I'm overall happy about this night and interaction despite I could have done things better but hey, we're never perfect!
I'd be glad to read your questions or observations about this, guys. Light and Peace on you all!
