Brothers
If I may direct to you my locked post of shame in the cold approach section of the forum
https://killyourinnerloser.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=19&t=1434
I learned two things. one, don't drink and post, and two, I needed to get out of my head
So I tried to approach as many women as I can today. Here are my approaches:
Basket Lady- She is an old lady carrying a basket of vegetables, and I helped her return a pen she borrowed to the guard.
Skirt girl- I approached her because I was afraid of approaching women who reveal too much skin. Does that make sense? Anyway, She was cute, and her voice was that friendly tune; well, all my approaches today were friendly. I just asked her directions and went our separate ways.
Long Haired girl- This girl was waiting for a ride (not that kind of ride), so I decided to talk to her and asked about the directions again, she was wearing short shorts, which I was a little intimidated by, but She was very polite.
Pink top lady- She is a professional-looking woman and quite tall. She has that "smartest girl in the classroom" vibe. I asked again for the directions. At this point, I needed to switch it up a little, but it is the only thing I can think of at the moment.
Yellow top girl- very small woman, she almost didn't talk to me. I asked for the directions to the school because it is the enrollment period, so it makes sense. She was so cute I needed to lean a little to hear what she was saying—no offense to our short-cohort. Please don't stone me.
Guitar shop-girl - I bought a harmonica/ "mouth-organ" and a guitar songbook in her shop. I bumped into a bunch of guitars. Thankfully I didn't break anything. we both laughed at that situation
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Gray top woman- We were waiting in a waiting room of my sister's dental clinic. I made a little small talk. She was a little chubby, and her cleavage was a little exposed. I tried to hold eye contact throughout the whole conversation. My sister did introduce me to her once we were inside.
My sister's co-worker- So my sister had adopted a new dentist in the dental clinic. She was a small woman, She had piercings on her ears and tattoos on her abdomen, she didn't show it, but she just told me, when the conversation went to tattoos. She's cute and has high energy. She kept talking to me while she was in my mouth (not in a good way, she was trying to fix my tooth).
Xray Girl- after my trip to the dentist/ my sister, she told me to get an x-ray in the next building, I went there. They were fixing the machine, so I have to go out again tomorrow, as I left I saw a couple, I told them the situation with the x-ray machine and suggested them to try the other x-ray facility in the city.
Shoe attendant- As I was going home, I made a detour toward the redlight district. I was hoping to get my genital sucked, but I was on a mission, so I decided to buy shoes instead. I saw this beautiful woman inside the store. She had long hair and wore the store uniform. I just went in to buy a pair of shoes. As I walked out of the store, I just said thank you to the shoe store attendant.
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Whoa, MAMA- This woman looked like she was waiting for someone, She wore a brown shirt that showed her HUGE cleavage, And she had huge hips. I asked for some directions and went my way.
Dog girl- There was this girl who was walking with her dog. I first said "hi" to the dog in a cutesie manner, the dog was scared of me, so I didn't ask for a picture, but the girl tried to encourage the dog to come to me...
Tomboyish girl- There was this girl who was walking toward me, she wore clothes that would make her look tomboyish, after asking for directions, I tried to smile with my eyes since I was was was wearing a face mask, and she smiled back, she was very cute
With her mom- I approached them because I wanted to find out if there is a difference between approaching a mother with her daughter and approaching them separately, things were awkward, but I pulled through. I asked them a question but another guy answered hahaha
3 Hotel Clerks- There was this point in my day after approaching women, that I felt very tired and I went into a hotel, I decided to cheat and speak to people who had no other choice but to talk to me, but the goal is to talk to women so, I still count that in my book (?)
Dyed hair lady- Women with dyed hair intimidate me so, I went and talk to them. this one, in particular, was cute and wore a crop top (?), I can't remember much of the conversation because I was tired at that time.
Jaira- This lady I approached, had features that reminded me of my ex, a part of me wanted to run away, but I was too tired, I decided to speak to her, and ask for directions, and to my surprise, she was actually lost and needed actual directions. so she told me her name and where she was going. she was going for a job interview but didn't know the place very well. I walked with her to show her where she needed to go for her job interview (It was close to where we were). I shared that I was a local in the city, and felt embarrassed that I was asking her for directions, but we both laughed at my self-deprecating joke, when we saw the place she needed, she crossed the road and I continued on. I could've asked for her number but I was too tired and she reminded me of my ex.
The Wolf pack- I wanted to get it over with at this point since I have been walking for 5 hours, I saw a group of women and spoke to them, They looked like an all-girl pop band, and all of them tried to answer my question for directions, I was afraid that I would be judged by the girls but I was too tired to care. they were polite and showed concern for me because, I don't know, maybe I looked like I going to faint, and the directions asked were a bit far away.
Curly-haired girl- As I was going home I saw a girl with her Dog and made a repeat with Dog-girl. I said "Hi" to her dog and smiled at her as best as I could.
Other interactions: Lingering eye contact with the girl in a store while she was talking to her boss and I also helped an actually lost guy find an office.
Things I learned
-Women won't give you a blunt force vasectomy, just because you wanted to speak to them.
-Walking for five hours is a bitch, compared to jogging for 2 hours. actually, I kinda needed that because I overate yesterday and went beyond my calories...
-People are generally positive during an interaction with a stranger.
-A well-timed smile goes a long way.
Also have some art: