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Day 29
Super!
Super High-Five!
[Get Double High-Five]
Super!
Repeat this 10 times, you will do this on 10 girls
I most likely could have attempted today, but I was with a buddy while out at the mall and I did not really wanna do approached with my friend around. He's supportive of me doing this kind of thing, but it just felt weird so I didn't. Ill attempt this tomorrow though. Got to at least give it a go. Although last time I went for 30 high-5s I only got 3 successful ones so we shall see.
Day 30
~To be done in a Bar/Club~
Walk past 10 girls, squeeze their arm lightly, but enough so they notice it.
After you squeeze their arm, say "nice." and continue walking.
After you do the drill on the first 10 girls, do it on 10 more girls but say "cute." instead of "nice."
* Major Challenge: Squeeze every girl in the place on the arm.
Repeat this 2 times, you will do this on 20 girls total.
Do whatever you want for the rest of the night.
Unfortunately I'm going to have to skip this day until the bars re-open :?
Last time I went out there were barely any people at the outside bars that are open. The ones who were out were sheltered in these dumb cubicle style outdoor seating areas
Day 31
~Reflection Day~
1. Which single drill was the hardest for you? (note that in the forum)
-Later today or tomorrow- I recommend doing that drill and KILLING IT. Try to leave a good taste in your mouth by smashing your enemy in the face.
2. How are things going so far?
-Compare yourself on Day 0 to right now.
3. How does the future look?
-Take into account your progress and multiply it by 2. That's how you'll feel next time we check in. Remember though, progress with this stuff is often exponential, 30 days from now you might be 5-10x better and not just 2x as good.
1. The hardest drill I've done to this point is the ABC's drill. So much anxiety while doing that drill. Felt like a weirdo while doing it even though some times I got good reactions. That day I still think is the day where I made the most progress so I'm interested to see how I will be when I attempt this day again. I'm going to set a challenge for myself and sing the ABC's 5 times. Little bit of anxiety even thinking about doing this but I for sure know I can.
2. Things are going pretty well so far. With the program I feel like I am making good progress. I've repeated some days that were challenging, but I'm glad I did so because I grew because of it. After day 17 (ABC's) the challenges have been mostly not too bad. I feel like I'm way more confident approaching random people and asking whatever I want. I haven't really had a problem approaching hot girls or even groups of hot girls. I feel like even if I make a fool of myself in front of someone it doesn't really affect me that much. The occasional bad interaction sometimes has an effect but, after a little bit of internalizing what happened I just move on from it. I would say I've literally talked to more girls in the past 30 days then I have in my whole life. And probably the most hot girls ever without being anxious. On day 0 it took me an 30 min to ask 5 girls for the time. I did it in 2 min not to long ago. I don't feel as much awkwardness from approaching girls that are near the last girl I have approached either. Still some but not even close to as much.
I also feel like the drills have had a positive effect on my overall confidence and social freedom. I have no trouble just asking for whatever I want from someone, or just talking to strangers in general. For example, in the past if I went into a store I would avoid the attendants and just wander around and look for whatever I needed. Now I just ask the people to direct me to exactly what I need. No hesitation at all just walk straight up and ask. Might seem small but its definitely a positive change to be able to just demand things from people, even if they are supposed to help. I feel like the change in my style has attributed to my confidence as well. I feel like I look good. Definitely more stylish then in the past. I care more about my appearance then before and its lead me to take care of my self. I use a facial scrub and moisturizer, so my skin is a lot better then before. I've lost close to 30 lbs, and I'm really proud of that. Hopefully with another 30 gone ill have abs. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I think I should focus more of my attention on working on my dating profile. I have been more focused on the drills, but if I did it in conjunction with the approaches , the progress would most likely be even more rapid. I have the time to do so but I've just been lazy. What's the point in doing all this work if I'm not even trying to get girls through online platforms. The confidence I have built goes to waste.
3. The future looks great! I'm very confident that I am going to finish this program and really make a everlasting impact on my life and lifestyle. The impact it has had so far is more then I honestly expected. I went into this program with no real expectations, just thinking I may give it a try. I had been a pretty shy person in the past talking to girls. I never really had a problem speaking my mind to new people, but girls especially I just did not know what to do or say. This program has given me more confidence in a month then I would have expected. I find my self thinking that I want to skip ahead and start doing cold approaches and calling girls cute and complimenting them. I'm not going to do that and ill just stick to the progression of the drills. Chris has said that the dudes who take short cuts or skip stuff are the ones who will fail in the end. Don't want be like that. I'm sure I will be humbled shortly in the future.
Super!
Super High-Five!
[Get Double High-Five]
Super!
Repeat this 10 times, you will do this on 10 girls
I most likely could have attempted today, but I was with a buddy while out at the mall and I did not really wanna do approached with my friend around. He's supportive of me doing this kind of thing, but it just felt weird so I didn't. Ill attempt this tomorrow though. Got to at least give it a go. Although last time I went for 30 high-5s I only got 3 successful ones so we shall see.
Day 30
~To be done in a Bar/Club~
Walk past 10 girls, squeeze their arm lightly, but enough so they notice it.
After you squeeze their arm, say "nice." and continue walking.
After you do the drill on the first 10 girls, do it on 10 more girls but say "cute." instead of "nice."
* Major Challenge: Squeeze every girl in the place on the arm.
Repeat this 2 times, you will do this on 20 girls total.
Do whatever you want for the rest of the night.
Unfortunately I'm going to have to skip this day until the bars re-open :?
Last time I went out there were barely any people at the outside bars that are open. The ones who were out were sheltered in these dumb cubicle style outdoor seating areas
Day 31
~Reflection Day~
1. Which single drill was the hardest for you? (note that in the forum)
-Later today or tomorrow- I recommend doing that drill and KILLING IT. Try to leave a good taste in your mouth by smashing your enemy in the face.
2. How are things going so far?
-Compare yourself on Day 0 to right now.
3. How does the future look?
-Take into account your progress and multiply it by 2. That's how you'll feel next time we check in. Remember though, progress with this stuff is often exponential, 30 days from now you might be 5-10x better and not just 2x as good.
1. The hardest drill I've done to this point is the ABC's drill. So much anxiety while doing that drill. Felt like a weirdo while doing it even though some times I got good reactions. That day I still think is the day where I made the most progress so I'm interested to see how I will be when I attempt this day again. I'm going to set a challenge for myself and sing the ABC's 5 times. Little bit of anxiety even thinking about doing this but I for sure know I can.
2. Things are going pretty well so far. With the program I feel like I am making good progress. I've repeated some days that were challenging, but I'm glad I did so because I grew because of it. After day 17 (ABC's) the challenges have been mostly not too bad. I feel like I'm way more confident approaching random people and asking whatever I want. I haven't really had a problem approaching hot girls or even groups of hot girls. I feel like even if I make a fool of myself in front of someone it doesn't really affect me that much. The occasional bad interaction sometimes has an effect but, after a little bit of internalizing what happened I just move on from it. I would say I've literally talked to more girls in the past 30 days then I have in my whole life. And probably the most hot girls ever without being anxious. On day 0 it took me an 30 min to ask 5 girls for the time. I did it in 2 min not to long ago. I don't feel as much awkwardness from approaching girls that are near the last girl I have approached either. Still some but not even close to as much.
I also feel like the drills have had a positive effect on my overall confidence and social freedom. I have no trouble just asking for whatever I want from someone, or just talking to strangers in general. For example, in the past if I went into a store I would avoid the attendants and just wander around and look for whatever I needed. Now I just ask the people to direct me to exactly what I need. No hesitation at all just walk straight up and ask. Might seem small but its definitely a positive change to be able to just demand things from people, even if they are supposed to help. I feel like the change in my style has attributed to my confidence as well. I feel like I look good. Definitely more stylish then in the past. I care more about my appearance then before and its lead me to take care of my self. I use a facial scrub and moisturizer, so my skin is a lot better then before. I've lost close to 30 lbs, and I'm really proud of that. Hopefully with another 30 gone ill have abs. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I think I should focus more of my attention on working on my dating profile. I have been more focused on the drills, but if I did it in conjunction with the approaches , the progress would most likely be even more rapid. I have the time to do so but I've just been lazy. What's the point in doing all this work if I'm not even trying to get girls through online platforms. The confidence I have built goes to waste.
3. The future looks great! I'm very confident that I am going to finish this program and really make a everlasting impact on my life and lifestyle. The impact it has had so far is more then I honestly expected. I went into this program with no real expectations, just thinking I may give it a try. I had been a pretty shy person in the past talking to girls. I never really had a problem speaking my mind to new people, but girls especially I just did not know what to do or say. This program has given me more confidence in a month then I would have expected. I find my self thinking that I want to skip ahead and start doing cold approaches and calling girls cute and complimenting them. I'm not going to do that and ill just stick to the progression of the drills. Chris has said that the dudes who take short cuts or skip stuff are the ones who will fail in the end. Don't want be like that. I'm sure I will be humbled shortly in the future.
Do that challenge atleast once. sundleboro you got to do that challenge too when you get to it.
